The art of joy, pleasure, gratification and the FemDom
This morning has been an interesting on for me. I have a very sweet client, let’s call him gman. Gman IMs me to say good morning, hello, and the like. I am a human being who adores pleasant social interaction with other human beings. Yes I am a FemDom, a sadist, cruel, and I definitely can be a bitch.
The truth of the matter is though I love all of the above, I love pleasant interactions with other human beings. I know that both of us are having a pleasurable exchange from them. Not that it’s pleasurable in the ways we normally believe it to be. I mean I know this is a place people come looking for the rough, rowdy, and what society has deemed the subversive.
Truthfully, those that call me and talk to me, I love them. I love that they feel a connection to me. Especially one where they talk openly, and freely. If you call me and are wanting to talk about your day. That’s a good thing. If you want to talk about everything under the sun and jerk off that’s okay too. One of the secrets of big bad FemDoms is that we do enjoy pleasure. We might give you an illusion of a cruel heartless bitch. We enjoy the same things you do though!
Many of us have families, lives, and the like outside of this. We have things we pursue and love. Hobbies, vacations.
gMan would give himself to me in and instant, he would do anything asked of him. Not only would he do this, he instant messages me, talks to me on IM. With someone devoted to you, there are no wasted words. I get to see gMan on camera when he calls. He is so sweet and vulnerable. There is something to that. Something to the sweetness and vulnerabilities. I love having a three dimensional human being on the other side of the phone line. I love to hear about the social pleasantries, then I love hearing the anticipation. The anticipation of our next session, and even more I love hearing from him what he likes. His input is so important.
Here is where the title of this post comes in. The art of joy, pleasure, gratification and the FemDom. I enjoy pleasure, and joy. They are parts of life that should always be there. Where is the joy in this, if you can’t hear the person onĀ the other end of the line enjoying it? Where is the pleasure, if their joy is not making you feel pleasure? Yes pleasure is very important. I like to get off with my clients, and I have with gMan. I have with many others as well. I don’t fake things very well. My heart is always on my sleeve. The last but certainly not least part is the part about gratification. Joy and pleasure will bring gratification.
That final moment when I’m watching the camera I get to see gMan’s release. I get to see him give up his control to me. I see the big smile all the way there. I feel the pleasure with him.
What do I know about gMan? I know that he enjoys our personal connection. I do as well. I also know that my voice, and eyes on him, push him furtherĀ into his state of Nirvana. I know that when I wake up in the morning and pull up my yahoo, I will have a pleasant message from him. I know that he cares whether my day has been good or not, and it’s good as soon as I see the message from him.
It’s nice to have a rapport with the one you are watching on camera, and who is breathing heavy in your ear. It makes the begging to cum all the more sweet. Your body tingles in more anticipation. A PERSON who adores you is giving themselves up for you.
This is my favorite kind of interaction. Everyone asks me what my favorite fantasy is. My favorite fantasy is knowing you, being inside your head, and making it my business to emotionally connect with you.
Mistress Corrine 800-356-6169
April 15th, 2008 at 10:50 am
I just stopped by your blog and thought I would say hello. I like your site design. Looking forward to reading more down the road.
Robert Michel
April 16th, 2008 at 10:59 am
Chello!
I agree with your sentiments completely…it is nice to have interaction, isn’t it?