Pets and Slaves and Toys, Oh My! Role playing styles for submissive men

 

Submissive playthings need not be categorized.  Any man who wants to please me is welcome to think of himself in any way he likes.  And I am sure Mistresses all have their own views about what makes one sub a pet and another a slave.  But in my mind, I divide you boys up into three categories when I consider role play options for you.

 

SUBMISSIVE  PETS

Pets are sweet and loving and fun and loyal.  Pets respond best to positive training methods and they are eager to please.  They are always happy to serve their Mistress and they delight in entertaining her and winning her favor.  They need minimal punishment and enjoy earning treats and rewards like the chance to give their Mistress a massage or wash her hair or shave her legs.  Pets happily obey commands and accept any instructions no matter how humiliating they may be.  Not all pets serve a sexual function.

I have numerous submissive male pets.  A great example of how pets function would be my dog, Spot.  Spot greets me by IM when I begin my work.  He cleans and moisturizes and massages my feet.  He adores me and serves me or rests at my feet waiting.  Spot tells me he loves me and thanks me for owning him.  I adore my puppy.  Good boy, Spotty!

 

SUBMISSIVE  SLAVES

Slaves may be willing or they may occasionally be unruly.  Slaves require more strict supervision and clearly defined rules.  And they must be severely punished if they willfully disregard those rules.  Slaves should not expect rewards; they serve because that is their role.  Their pleasure is irrelevant.  Submissive slaves need to have their position reinforced by the assignment of humiliating tasks.  Slaves are useful.

I am training several slaves now.  A good example of a slave would be my plaything, ServantBoy.  He cleans my home, does research for me, tells me stories and submits obediently any time I decide to use him sexually.  And he gratefully accepts punishment whenever he misbehaves.  He thanks me for caring enough to correct his behavior.

 

SUBMISSIVE  TOYS

Toys are just that.  Playthings to be used for my enjoyment.  They are often funny and entertaining.  I do not discipline toys or train them.  I just play with them.  Toys make me laugh and occasionally their antics may arouse me as well.  I rarely create sexual scenes where toys participate, though.  I mostly just tease them and make them perform entertaining tasks for me.

I have several toys that I play with regularly including TeaseToy and the OneAndOnlyToy.  These submissives always make me laugh and I love to tease them, especially when they are in denial and cannot cum.

 

HOW  WILL  YOU  PLEASE  ME?

These categories can sometimes be fluid.  A submissive might be more of a pet for a time and then more of a slave.  And some submissives never fall in any of these categories.  But for the most part, I tend to see my subs as pets, slaves or toys.  Pets are more loving, slaves are more challenging, and toys are just fun. So which will you be?  My sweet pet?  My industrious slave boy?  Or my toy to play with?

 

 

Phone Sex Pleasure Comes in Many Flavors

 

 

Variety keeps life interesting.  I have been writing a lot about submission lately because I am excited to have found LDW and I enjoy expressing my dominance in a environment filled with so many submissive men.  But I am a multi-faceted woman and I very much enjoy my vanilla callers and dominant callers as well.  You guys give me a chance to change gears and enjoy being touched in different ways.  Vanilla calls can lead to delicious intimacy and steamy sensual erotic scenes.

I love sharing power in a hot sensual call where we touch and tease and lick and suck and explore each other fully.  These calls are a fun sexy change of pace and I am thrilled to play with a man who is my equal, too.  I especially enjoy when we take our time and build up the sexual energy over dinner, drinks, and conversation where our sweet talk turns a little spicy.  And maybe we both surprise each other in the bedroom with our fun open playful sexual sharing.  Tell me what you need, Baby.  Let’s take care of each other.

Some of my most memorable calls have been with interesting dynamic thoughtful men who enjoy pleasing me but also sometimes challenging me to relax and explore with them.  So do not assume that I am only interested in my submissive play-toys.  I do adore them, to be sure.  Dominance is my nature and sub toys do make me very happy.  But I also enjoy a sensual vanilla night now and then or even a challenging man with strong hands and his own agenda.

 

Male Submission, Phone sex Domination

 

Obey your Queen

 

 

Submit to me.  Become mine.  Let go.  Accept my authority.  Relax and let me use you as I see fit.  Submit.

 

What does submission mean to you? Some men consider a woman dominant if she tells him what she wants.  Other men want a woman so commanding that she leaves him no room for a will of his own at all.  Submission is a continuum running from almost-equals to something like an ant and elephant.  Where do you fall on that continuum?

I like power. And I have found that true submissive men are genuinely rare birds.  My pleasure comes from men who give.  Not in a role-playing overly dramatic way.  But in a lucid adult way.  By saying, “Here is what I am, here is all that I am, please take me.  Make me yours.”  Because that is where we can actually learn and grow together.  That is where intimacy starts for me.  When you trust me enough to give me your vulnerability. Give me your cock.  Listen to me, obey me, spoil me, serve me.

Handing me the gift of your will does not mean playing dumb or asking me to read your mind.  I want you to communicate when I ask for your input.  I expect you to know yourself and to share what you know. Relationships based in dominance and submission are still relationships and they are only as strong as both participants.  I appreciate the courage it takes to give yourself over to me and I appreciate a submissive man who is willing to step outside his comfort zone.

I am capable of many different kinds of satisfying sexual interactions.  From loving, kind, sweet sexual exploration with a non-submissive male.  To fucking my little bitch, pounding her hard with my strap-on.  I enjoy nurturing relationships with some subs, where they are like loving pets that I truly enjoy caring for and developing.  Others need strict enforcement and regular punishment.  Which kind of partner will you be? Will you let me test you?  Can I be gentle with you even when you want me to be rough?  Can I fuck you up even when you want me to be sweet?

Do you just need a little guidance?  Or do you need complete submission in male chastity?  What are your limits?  Let’s find out together.  Get to know me first.  And then hand over your cock.  And your mind.  I want to own you.

 

Queen Iris

 

 

Grateful for My Fabulous Freaky Phone Sex Callers

 

This is my bi-weekly gratitude post.  I want to thank all of my fun, pervy clients for calling regularly and keeping me entertained with your sexy (or disgusting) needs.  You make life interesting and I so enjoy our play time.  Whether you give me hot wet orgasms or a chance to take out my aggression, you are a treat and much appreciated.  I am looking forward to a filthy new year with you.

I appreciate all of my loyal subjects, but I especially want to thank those devoted men who bowed down before me and honored me with gifts and virtual bouquets this week.  Your worship delights me.  A special thanks also goes out to the cam guys, too.  I love watching you stroke for me.

And I need to send a personal shout out to some memorable callers:

Thanks to my LDWHubby for a night of unforgettable fun.  I have not talked to anyone all night long since I was in sixth grade and my parents went out of town.  I do not remember what I talked my little boyfriend about back then, but I know it could not have been nearly as much fun as the all-nighter I pulled with you, Hot Thing.  You are delicious in so many ways.

MyPet, you have a bigger spirit than one might expect from a man with such a tiny little dick.  Thanks for all the playtime and for being your bad kinky self.  Smack your ass when you think of me.  And please let me know when you have hooked up with McDreamy.  Or when you are ready to go back in your cage.

Thanks, again, MrDinner, for your colorful and completely unique imagination.  Yum yum … licking my chops.  The lobster was my favorite.  That and the bison.

SorryCharlie, I love your fabulous sense of humor.  No one makes me laugh like you do.  Seriously.  No one.  I also had fun testing you sexually.  :)  I know how rarely you let anyone shut you up, so I am honored to have had my fun.

MinnesotaGirl, thank you for sharing so much of your fascinating life story with me!  It really is like a movie.  I am proud of you for being yourself.  (But I cannot share your interest in Vikings football themed lingerie.)  Please keep me updated on your romantic developments.

The One and Only Toy – I am always impressed by your dedication and creativity!  :)  Thanks for the chance to get naked with Mistress Ryan.  She really does have an AMAZING tongue!

Thanks for the fun cam sessions, SkypeBoy!  I love playing with hot young playthings who do what I say.  Especially when they offer such a nice view.  Thank you for cleaning everything up for me, too.  :)

MyStudent, I hope you decide to come back after your break.  You did well on your lessons and you have potential.  I would like to responsibly take control of your cock long term.

SissySlutQueen – You are amazing!  How many men did you tell me about?  I lost track.  :)  But I had a ball chatting with you about your wild appetities and fun adventures.  Did your boyfriend ever send that last guy over that night??

And finally, MyLittleBitch, we have not spent much time together yet, but I am impressed by your dedication and I have plans for you.  Your obedience, devotion and willingness to take a boot to the groin make you an interesting candidate to be my next house-pet.  How do you feel about being neutered?

 

Well, I just completed my first month at LDW!  What a fun ride it has been so far.  Thank you for your patience while I learn the ropes.  Keep challenging me with your weird freaky fantasies and I will keep toying with your weak minds and dangling appendages.

Your Queen,

Iris

 

 

 

Fun phonesex news from your helpful intelligent filthy phone sex Mistress

 

 

Hello, playthings,

I will have a new gratitude post out on Sunday. But I want to catch you all up on some random news first.

PHONE SEX: Many of you have asked about the job. I am new here at LDW. I began in December. I am also new to this industry. But I have been training for this position for years. :) I love my work! I am having a great time playing with you. Work is going incredibly well. And I plan to stick around here for a long time. Thank you for keeping me so busy. And if you have had trouble reaching me, please check my schedule and feel free to email me to set an appointment. My email address is Iris@EnchantrixEmpire.com

BLOGGING: I have had a lot of training things and audio work and other commitments during my first month and now that those are mostly completed, I hope to be blogging more often. I enjoy sharing my thoughts and experiences here. If you enjoy reading and listening, please leave supportive comments. I appreciate your feedback. And comments help my blog get noticed by Google so that more fun kinky people can discover your talented kinky Mistress. Upcoming blogs in the works…. The new gratitude post, losing my chastity virginity, playing with my pets, exploiting male vulnerability, and embracing my inner Sadist.

AUDIOS: Audios available for sale and download seem to me to be an excellent way for guys to affordably enjoy my filthy mind in privacy and repeatedly, what do you think? It is a way for you to put me on your ipod and let your dirty mind wander with no one knowing what you are up to. A great solution for men who have trouble setting up a call. I have a few recordings available now and more Goddess worship sessions should be in the store in the next few days. I sent them in earlier this week. They are sessions in ass worship, breast worship, foot worship, and face-sitting. I plan to release a chastity audio next week and a cuckolding audio soon. If you have requests, please share them in the comments.

So that is my news! Watch for the gratitude post on Sunday.

Have a great weekend,

Queen Iris